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I've been thinking about our desires—not fleeting wishes but longings that remind us there's more to life than comfortable compromises. In Episode 15, we illuminate how many of us are caught in the familiar tension between gratitude for what is and hunger for what could be.
There's wisdom in wanting; maybe it's time to stop apologizing for wanting more. xo, P.S. If this episode resonates, you might want to check out Sovereignty—doors open next month. Get on the waitlist. |
Welcome to the no-BS corner of the internet for women over 40. Where marriage gets real, divorce gets honest, and dating makes sense. Pull up a chair.